Feeling stuck in a funk can be exhausting, draining, and overwhelming—not just for you but for those around you. It’s like every day is a rainy, dreary day, and it’s been too long since you felt excited about anything.
I’ve been there. For over two months, I struggled to shake off the heavy feeling of being stuck. It wasn’t until someone helped me take a hard look at my habits that I finally found a way out. If you’re feeling the same way, here are five simple, effective tips to help you break free from the funk and start feeling like yourself again.
From my dear son
1. Develop a Daily Gratitude Practice
One of the fastest ways to shift your mindset is to focus on gratitude. Start each day by writing down three things you’re grateful for in a gratitude journal or take a moment to reflect during morning and evening meditation.
I used to get annoyed by little things—like my 4-year-old waking up early and interrupting my “me” time. But when I reframed it, I saw the beauty in those moments. Instead of feeling frustrated, I thanked God for allowing me to experience love and joy through my son’s smile.
Start Your Day with Positivity
Another powerful way to set the tone for your day is by listening to an uplifting podcast or reading a few pages of an inspiring book. What we feed our minds first thing in the morning influences our entire day. Instead of scrolling through social media or jumping into stress, try starting with something that fuels your mind and spirit.
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Try this: Keep a gratitude journal that you write in each morning and evening.
2. Set Break Reminders Throughout the Day
When you’re in a funk, your mind gets stuck in negative thought loops. One of the easiest ways to break the cycle is by taking intentional breaks.
Set an alarm on your phone to remind you to pause and breathe throughout the day. Even a 30-second breathing exercise can shift your energy. Take a walk to change the scenery. I use the app Alarmed to set gentle reminders that prompt me to pause, take a deep breath, and reset my mindset.
3. Stop the Negative Self-Talk
Negative energy feeds the funk. Whether it’s gossiping at work, criticizing yourself, or focusing on the worst in every situation, it only makes things worse.
Start paying attention to your thoughts. If you catch yourself thinking negatively, pause and reframe it into something more empowering. Instead of saying, “I’m failing,” shift to, “I’m learning and growing every day.”
Challenge: Try a “no negative talk” challenge for a full day. Every time you catch yourself saying something negative, replace it with a positive statement.
4. Get Active and Move Your Body
Exercise isn’t just for physical health—it moves energy through your body, too. Even if you don’t feel like it, getting outside for a walk, stretching, or doing a quick workout can make a huge difference.
Spending time in nature, soaking up some Vitamin D, or simply taking a few deep breaths outside can help reset your energy and lift your mood.
Pro Tip: If you don’t have time for a full workout, take a 10-minute walk or do a few stretches at your desk. Movement, no matter how small, helps!
5. Write About It: Journaling for Clarity
One of the best ways to process emotions and gain clarity is to write about what you’re going through. Set aside time to reflect on your thoughts, what’s been bothering you, and what you truly want moving forward.
Journaling not only helps you release pent-up emotions but also provides insight into patterns that might be keeping you stuck.
Try this prompt: “What’s one small step I can take today to feel better?”
Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone
If you’re in a funk, know that you’re not alone. Everyone goes through tough seasons, but the good news is—you have the power to shift your energy and feel better. Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember: You’ve got this!
Ready to take control of your mindset? Check out my favorite journaling prompts and self-care resources.
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